I have to believe that it's your travel companions that matters. I love Bali, even Nyepi's Day falls on our vacation period—we only found out 2 weeks before the trip. So glad that we made it happen. It's one of the best trips in my life. It's so free and easy, just as my usual holiday style. Initially we wanted to be a part of Ann's pre-wedding shoot at a church but it was being called off due to unforeseen circumstances.

Paddy field

I was kinda surprised to find our villa smaller than what I have expected, but it's just nice to divide the rooms to 5 different groups and each room has king-sized bed and own bathroom. The view of paddy field was pretty breathtaking especially in the morning. Our first 3 days in Bali was very cloudy, definitely not the best kind of weather for a vacation but we had it all worked out somehow.

Nyepi's Day is Balinese New Year, it also means day of silence. It's really one of a kind experience to be in Bali during this time. What are the odds people will actually book your flight to Bali for this day? The Balinese takes this celebration very seriously because on this day, there'll be no phone data, no lights, shops will be closed, even airport too. No one is allowed on the street, everyone must stay in. We went to supermarket several times just to make sure we have enough foods and drinks for the following day.

In the evening on Nyepi's Eve, Pak Made(our driver) was kind enough to take us to his village where the Ogoh-ogoh parade took place in. What an opportunity to witness such unique local culture and ritual!

Nyepi's Eve
Nyepi's Eve
Nyepi's Eve
Nyepi's Eve
Nyepi's Eve

Pretty sure everyone were well rested on Nyepi's, since there isn't anything to do we can sleep as late as we want. Thank God for Netflix so the guys can watch movies. I don't even remember what the rest was doing. After breakfast I went back to my room and just lay down comfortably in bed and did nothing. This one quiet moment, even with the sound of pouring rain, really allowed me to reconnect with my inner side again. It's a great reminder that we should sometimes take a pause in life and be thankful.


Next day we booked a van to Ubud for lunch and sightseeing before we split and moved to our booked hotel at Ubud, Seminyak and Kuta respectively. We invited Melvin to join us on the last day since he's staying nearby. We also hired a babysitter for our last day. It was the best decision we made! I took the time to go for 2 hours spa while the guys just hang out at the pool bar. After that we went to Potato Head Club and spent the evening there.

She surely knows how to party.

Chandra was our best investment during this trip. 🤓

It's quarter to 4 as I'm writing this. Heck, it's just one month away to the end of Q1. 😱 My daily routine is the same everyday without fail—bath Alyssa, feed her, play with her, make her sleep & repeat. She is getting more attached to me, not even sure if it's a good thing. We left her to mum last night so both of us can have some time to ourselves for a steamboat gathering over Kuan's place. It felt great to finally have some short silence in the house while Joe was having his afternoon nap, but as soon as we're all set in the car, I felt like part of me was missing! I felt so uneasy inside out, it's really been centuries since we have long hours to ourselves. This also means how active she can be at all time.
Did a cake smash shoot at home for Alyssa's 1st Birthday! It was not like any other cake smash photos I have seen online cos she totally rejected the cake I specially ordered for her. 😩

Set A: Birthday Crown

I was looking at life events column on Facebook one day and realised Joe & I are in the 4th year together now. Time flies so quickly after we're married and even more after Alyssa was born. One of the things I've failed to achieve last year was to write regularly but I'm not complaining, I think I'm naturally a stay home mum. 🤔

Leaving confinement centre is something I really looked forward to ever since I delivered. For the first week I can't stop thinking about being free from "jail" so I can go out with my baby. Coming to the end of 2nd week, oh man I really wish I could stay longer—I really love the fact I get delicious meals everyday, and few knocks on the door to signify it's dessert time. A phone call away to bring away a crying baby, to help manage and keep my EBM, sterilise my bottles, to bring me my herbal bath water... I felt like a queen!

In the first month of the year I had one of my teenage dreams fulfilled. Thank you mum & aunt for offering to take care of our little one so that we can take few hours off for Jay Chou's concert I've been dreaming about.

May's biggest event is none other than #GE14! For the first time in history the opposition aka PH claimed victory after winning majority parliamentary seats. And of course we went home to vote. 🤩

Another concert treat! Joe got free tix for Eric Chou's concert and he offered to babysit Alyssa so that I could catch the show. I dragged along ZX with me knowing he hasn't been to any concert before!

We finally moved in to our new apartment, phew! After going through massive nuisances with all our contractors, I'm glad everything has come to an end. I didn't get much time to really decorate yet with an active baby around so there isn't any particular space or corner I'm in love with YET but as usual, I love being at living hall the most! Neighbours here are friendlier as there are more families than working expats here compared to our old place, this being one of the reasons we really like it here the first time we came for a look.


We celebrated Alyssa's 1st Birthday at home! 😭 Took so many pictures and we were really thankful for our guests who took their time to come all the way here just to share this special moment with us.

Untitled  Let's Cut the Cake!
Untitled  It's My Birthday!

In the past year, I made efforts to travel as frequent as I can so that I wouldn't feel being tied up as a SAHM. As much as I miss those days when there's just the two of us, I'm just as happy to be making memories as a family of 3 now.
We made a spontaneous trip to Singapore last month, just few days after we moved in(finally!) for a weekend to meet my SIL and SW, it's just so great we got to spend time together. We also went to the zoo, which was something I really looked forward to but they were having company events for families so it was really packed.

Singapore Zoo Trip
Lunch @ Haji Lane

I guess the (most unexpected) highlight of the trip has got to be Mamma Mia Musical. I happened to find out on the newspaper when I was just flipping through at the hotel lobby. I had been telling Joe how awesome it was and I would pay for the front row next time because it would be totally worth it. Isn't this destined to be?! That I get to watch it again? So without a doubt, off we went! Upon arriving at the theatre entrance, most guests are decently dressed for the occasion, except for us. We went in with Aly of course, and we have to keep her busy with snacks or toys at all time so she wouldn't make a sound, which is entirely impossible.

When the show began, she started to lose her patience and I was then invited to leave the hall by an old lady who was in charged of my section. I'm really thankful for this lady as she didn't just walk away but stayed by my side to cheer me up. I felt so much better talking to her. About 15 mins later Joe reach out to me, he knew I really wanted this, so I passed over baby to him and went back inside for the show while he watched it outside on screen.

I just remembered about wanting to compliment this old lady to Sands Theatre thru email but goddamnit I forgot her name by now. And Joe, thanks for making my dream comes true, you've done it again! ♡

離正式搬家的日子真的不遠了,WHAT A RELIEF! 可是人生就是這麼的諷刺,當我們越接近入伙的日子,平时被忽略的窗外风景显得特別的美,特別的藍。Now I'm super reluctant to leave this place! 以後的家望過去對面,看到的會是隱隱約約的人影,或者是鄰居在陽台各種活動。